Comments on: Thai boyfriend

by: Stefan

Sun, 15 Jun 2008 12:14:48 +0000

I had to laugh when I was reading about your conversation in the taxi I know these situations very good, I also have a younger thai boyfriend.
But my experience says, that it is really a special “thai mood”. Some hours later everything is ok again.
And what belongs to the money thing: It is often a part of a relationship between thais and farangs. And it is ok as long as there is love also. Thais sometimes feel more practical than farangs

by: WooHoo

Tue, 10 Jun 2008 17:53:46 +0000

Mmm… everyone else seems to have had their say here’s MY two-peneth. (Late as usual)

I think it’s probably right that the romance is over.

However, as a warm human being Silom feels a duty to continue to try and support Chalerm at least until his studies are finished, or until they both actually SAY it’s all over and they jointly agree to part. Then Silom will feel his ‘fatherly’ duty is done and he is free to move on.

Chalerm of course needs Silom. He needs a home and the support with his studies and other things material.

I suspect Chalerm is probably also jealous of this blog and the neverending search for photos of cuties that Silom has to find to satisfy our feeding frenzy. That probably doesn’t help.

So there ya go… yet another opinion from a distance - and reading between the lines as always.

Jeez I hope we’re all wrong and they sort it out!

by: trongpai

Tue, 10 Jun 2008 13:26:51 +0000

“Sorry to have to have to say this, but it’s over.”
“Oh get rid of him”

I have been telling Silom this for some time now, he does not listen. I tell my BF the Chalerm stories and after he gradually realizes that I am not talking about him in an indirect way, he agrees times up for this relationship.

by: Vito

Mon, 09 Jun 2008 15:22:04 +0000

I share the majority of opinions on ambigues type of your relationship. Is it still about love or just only about money….
I’m Polish and my partner is Polish too. We travel a lot, sometimes apart but during that 6 years our affections is growing on but airport farewell is very very emotive.
I couldn’t stand such relationship as you still do.

by: suanphlu farang

Sun, 08 Jun 2008 11:50:34 +0000

Oh get rid of him, save your money Bangkok is an ocean filled with minnows - there’s plenty more fish in this sea.

I hope everything is OK when you return to this city of angels with black wings.

by: Astro

Sat, 07 Jun 2008 17:39:16 +0000

He just in one of those Thai moods…I have to shake it out my BF, then he is back to loving again. Usually by tickling him and making fun.

by: Martin

Sat, 07 Jun 2008 14:52:16 +0000

I have been reading about your life and relationship in Thailand for a long time. I’m in a relationship with a younger thai boy too, and I understand exactly what is going on with you and Chalerm.
Money is a part of this relationship, that’s what we can’t deny. But that’s pretty understandable, as we “farangs” got some money, our thai boyfriends normally don’t have anything.
As long as you can also feel some love from your boyfriend, it’s acceptable. If not, it’s probably time to think everything over.
I’m also kind of a father figure for my boyfriend Chanon, but he shows me every day that he loves me.
I hope, you will get back that feeling too. All the best for you and Chalerm.

by: loris

Sat, 07 Jun 2008 12:12:28 +0000

What a sad situation,especially when you are leaving for farangland, that he should act this way. Money seems to be a very important factor. I wouldn’t accept being treated this way, especially when there are many that would appreciate you much more than him.

by: J

Sat, 07 Jun 2008 05:27:29 +0000

Aww! Cute!

by: gearguy

Sat, 07 Jun 2008 04:26:15 +0000

Sorry to have to have to say this, but it’s over.